Gay. B.D.S/M. Leather Master. Dungeon. Seattle, WA. Medical Fetish. Play Piercing. slave training. foot fetish.
Negotiation
There is some key information I will need for our experience together. Feel free to use this information to help you guide your personal scenes.
"Safety is the cornerstone of B.D.S/M"
Nalani Santiago
So...the big question....does the talking before, or the negotiation take away the spontaneity or the hotness. I would say...hell no!
..as a wise teacher once told me, "safety frees us to go where we need to go."
The question remains...where do you want to go? This time is for you. You will get an opportunity to experience parts of you that frequently lay dormant. I suggest you use the time to communicate to me honestly which will help me give you one hell of ride.
Sensation: (an incomplete list to give you ideas...)
* Check out my interests to help you.
What do you like? or...what do you like to hate?
Thud, Flog, Wrestle,
Sting, Squeeze
Whack, Spank, Stretch
Buzz, pinch, massage
Ground, energy movement
Pierce, Cut,
Punch, Kick, Trample
TIckle
Leather Touch or...?
Negotiation Questions
1. What is your experience with B. D.S/M?
2. Please communicate any issues that may apply:
* High/ Low Blood Pressure
* Issues with Immune system
* Fainting/passing out
* Artificial Limbs
* Mobility issues (eg getting up and down from knee position)
* Hepatitis
3. What does being turned on look like to you?
4. Do you have any allergies or sensitivities to latex, shellfish, bzk, or rubbing alcohol? Any other major allergies?
5. Have you ever had to receive CPR because you had no breathe or no pulse?
(if yes…why?) Especially if you are new, I need to know if you have passsed out and why that happened.
6. What are your limitations around marks, if any? How do you bruise? (easily, it takes a lot, etc)
7. What are your boundaries around play?
8. What are you looking for? What is your intention for our session?
9. What are your greatest hopes and fears around playing with me?
10. Is there anything else I should know?
